these days he comes home almost dead (it’s 100 degrees in NY)…and he works on rooftops mostly of office buildings.
So aside from that, one of the first things they checked for was a tumor, I think he was very worried about that which is why it took so much longer to get to the doctor. Why do ppl do that? I had a sister in law who found a lump and for a year ignored it out of fear….when she finally went to the doctor it was too far gone and had spread. She died at 51.
A doctor once told me that one third of physical ailments will get better on their own, one third will eventually kill us and one third can be successfully treated by a doctor…but it takes a doctor to figure that out!